Before tying up your partner/sub/bottom, be sure you’ve done your research on safety and bondage. Communicate with your partner and ask how their limbs are feeling. If they’re going numb then you’re cutting off circulation. You should be able to fit a finger between the rope and the skin. If you can’t then it’s too tight.ties like the dragonfly sleeve, do not yank at the arms and pull them back. Be gentle and do it gradually so you don’t strain the arms or the joints.
...that bare inch or so of flesh, that fraction of soft skin that becomes a near-endless expanse of possibility, a minefield of promised things, that draws my eyes to you no matter what the carnival around us, then pulls something from my chest in your wake as you walk away. Tease. PG
The relationship was just a game to them. The narcissist kept you around and strung you along under false pretenses, while investing the bare minimum. The entire relationship was a lie filled with a lot of deception on their part. The narcissist that you were in a relationship with, never had the intension of moving the relationship forward and never will, because they are incapable of doing so.