I tried so hard to get better, to get over this, to forget it all and move on and I thought I was getting to the point where I could say that I am feeling a lot better, but right now I couldn't feel any worse. so true right now
Even if we were never together, I spent so much time trying to forget you. In years I understood that I will never forget you but that doesn't mean I have to be in love with you. When I finally understood that, I moved on.
"Accept the fact that some people didn't intend to let you down. Their best is just less than you expected." ~Thelma Davis <-- Never thought of it like that before. Wow, that really reframes one's perspective.
Never. Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn. (Those are not my words but well said.