Anyone can have a child and call themselves "a parent." A real parent is someone who puts that child about their own selfish needs and wants. ((Exactly. **Above their own selfish needs and wants**........))
Narcissistic family members will deny and lie to protect each other and the family dysfunction. They want to keep pretending that nothing is wrong. If you speak up and acknowledge the family abuse and manipulation, they will unite and turn on you, then convince themselves that they are a strong united family.
They will say the most awful things you'll ever hear. They'll turn everyone against you. They'll intimidate you, and inflict fear. They'll try the best to ruin your reputation and isolate you. The best thing to do is to walk away from the Narcissistic Beast. They don't deserve you, going no contact is the only way to beat them, and for once you'll have one over them.