Shelley Thompson

Shelley Thompson

Shelley Thompson
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Life with a narcissist, im so happy to be alone and not laying next to that cold empty shell who told me to fuck off every dam night for 13 years.

Life with a narcissist, im so happy to be alone and not laying next to that cold empty shell who told me to fuck off every dam night for 13 years.

Truth. I know I can't force you to love me if you don't, and I'm not trying to. This is your decision. I've tried hard to show you how much I care and how much you mean to me, but you still seem like you haven't made up your mind. So it's your call. But I can't be numb to pain, I care too much about things. So if you decide that you really don't want me, then please just have the decency to tell me. It would hurt, but it would hurt a lot less than what you're doing now.

Truth. I know I can't force you to love me if you don't, and I'm not trying to. This is your decision. I've tried hard to show you how much I care and how much you mean to me, but you still seem like you haven't made up your mind. So it's your call. But I can't be numb to pain, I care too much about things. So if you decide that you really don't want me, then please just have the decency to tell me. It would hurt, but it would hurt a lot less than what you're doing now.

Put another way, he who cares the least, controls the most.  Narcissists love and care the least...always. Loving sacrifice is a foreign concept to them.  You of course can sacrifice everything in meeting their need(s)...but it doesn't work the other way around.  Narcissists are incapable of authentic giving without expectation.  That's just the way it is.  They are all about control....and all about controlling you who are partnered up with them!  The end.

Put another way, he who cares the least, controls the most. Narcissists love and care the least...always. Loving sacrifice is a foreign concept to them. You of course can sacrifice everything in meeting their need(s)...but it doesn't work the other way around. Narcissists are incapable of authentic giving without expectation. That's just the way it is. They are all about control....and all about controlling you who are partnered up with them! The end.

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Love...Love...Love this Quote Love this Quote! I never wanted someone to buy me roses; I wanted someone who'd plant them knowing that I'd be around when the flowers bloomed. I hate being given flowers anyway! A man that did this would be great :)

I must apologize for my words but I just wish that I knew sooner because then maybe I wouldn't have wasted the last 40 years on trying to be friends with someone who never gave a damn in the first place & never takes responsibly when she loses her temper or is hurt!!

I must apologize for my words but I just wish that I knew sooner because then maybe I wouldn't have wasted the last 40 years on trying to be friends with someone who never gave a damn in the first place & never takes responsibly when she loses her temper or is hurt!!

Healing from Complex Trauma. Its no walk in the park... Dragged through a hedge is a better description.

Healing from Complex Trauma. Its no walk in the park... Dragged through a hedge is a better description.