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He loves to tell people that I ruined our family when I left him: I left him to save our children and myself from his mental and physical abuse.

He loves to tell people that I ruined our family when I left him: I left him to save our children and myself from his mental and physical abuse.

So true after I got back home the dumb ass kept calling and texting I gave in I ran back I don't even remember coming home after that I woke up at my grandma's house with my cousin and my second mama around me..

So true after I got back home the dumb ass kept calling and texting I gave in I ran back I don't even remember coming home after that I woke up at my grandma's house with my cousin and my second mama around me..

Mandala geometric back tattoo by friedrichuebler

Mandala geometric back tattoo by friedrichuebler

I have always felt strongly about this. It's important to me to be independent and still be your own priority. It's possible to still love someone more than life and make time for you. Independence is completely necessary and possible in a relationship.

Instead of saying "I'm damaged, I'm broken, I have trust issues" say "I'm healing, I'm rediscovering myself, I'm starting over". Positive self talk. ... damn hard sometimes ... but getting better ... some days ;)