"You deliberately put yourself in difficult situations and you examine your reactions. In each case, you will notice that your fears were exaggerated and that confronting them has the bracing effect of bringing you closer to reality." http://saveriovalenti.com/personal-development-books/the-50th-law-by-50-cent-and-robert-greene/
I am not one for violence or anger, but at times I do feel like an eye for an eye. People often take my kindness for weakness and then I have to put them back in their place. People underestimate me, disrespect me, and don't evaluate my potential at times, so I have to end up reminding them who actually runs things. Fighting is something that is childish to me, but this quote reminds me that it will always be my last resort.