We feel angry and embarrassed when we are sucked in by someone who lies and manipulates. We resent the time, energy and love we offered them in good faith because it was all for nothing. They don't even appreciate what they took from us because it is never enough for them. Once we see through them, they search for a new victim and we can't even give out a warning because the liar is so good at what they do - they do it all the time. We can only watch and wait and hope...
When someone lies on others and paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects is the definition of a Narcissist human being also carries the traits of a hypocrite and that type of person will be offended by the truth, but i will say this what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing peoples true colors and the honest at heart will always prevail . So be careful what you say and make sure you taste you words before you...
Looks like she got all that she needed and wanted out of me just to destroy another person that she was jealous of- but not really- the loser is the user- Not the one who fell for the fakery and lies- Users fake friendships to get what they want from you -sad and shameful to say the least
When Narcissists Claim to be Victims of Narcissists – Who is the Narcissist?
aka...living a lie. Only the true narcissist hates the truth. No normal, rational person can ignore the truth. Listen to the way people frame conversations and you'll figure it out. It may take awhile to put the pieces together, but never doubt your gut. There are some guys in this world who will invent bullcrap about their exes in order to look more appealing. (And women will do this too, guys! Their act is usually the damsel in distress, battered woman act.) Avoid! Period.
If someone tells you they are being abused by a sociopath or psychopath & your first reaction is to think they are lying because the alleged abuser is such a nice, great person… think again. Superficial charm is one of the top criteria for both disorders. It's quite likely that the anti-social predator will appear nicer, more honest & more interesting than the person who is being abused.
A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. After all, time has a mind of its own!
Truth! People lie all day long, and have the nerve to preach about kindness. I guess they conveniently forgot how many people really know them and have been a victim of their hate and bitterness and have had to pick up their slack! Pathetic and ignorant is an understatement!!!
This explains it well. All the symptoms and other info about someone who suffers from Narcissists Personality Disorder. They will lie to make themselves look good. they thrive on other peoples lives instead of focusing on their own. They are obsessed with drama.
Yes yes yes!! Oh my gosh the "poor me" act was so incredibly exhausting to deal with. Everyone was always out to get him, he did nothing wrong. ALL his ex's were psycho, abusive skanks etc... Give me a break! The lies were as endless as the ocean is deep