Looks like she got all that she needed and wanted out of me just to destroy another person that she was jealous of- but not really- the loser is the user- Not the one who fell for the fakery and lies- Users fake friendships to get what they want from you -sad and shameful to say the least
Users and Takers are a bummer but a part of life.... Lower your expectations and you'll never be disappointed with the negative aspects of human nature. Stay true to your goodness anyway. Good actions manifest into good lives...
When Narcissists Claim to be Victims of Narcissists – Who is the Narcissist?
aka...living a lie. Only the true narcissist hates the truth. No normal, rational person can ignore the truth. Listen to the way people frame conversations and you'll figure it out. It may take awhile to put the pieces together, but never doubt your gut. There are some guys in this world who will invent bullcrap about their exes in order to look more appealing. (And women will do this too, guys! Their act is usually the damsel in distress, battered woman act.) Avoid! Period.
We feel angry and embarrassed when we are sucked in by someone who lies and manipulates. We resent the time, energy and love we offered them in good faith because it was all for nothing. They don't even appreciate what they took from us because it is never enough for them. Once we see through them, they search for a new victim and we can't even give out a warning because the liar is so good at what they do - they do it all the time. We can only watch and wait and hope...
A person who lives in Denial will paint a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark, will come to light. Time has a way of showing people's true colors
It's crazy, when I met you, you were like light, a light that brightened up my life again, after being in the darkness for so long. You were the one that re lit the light inside of me, & now you're the one who has put it out.