Most men cannot listen to a woman's feelings and realize the way he handles it, responds to it, what he does from that moment on sets the tone. Often she's not bitching to bitch, she's needing you to hear something and learn. Her expression of her feelings and needs does not make her a bitch.
There is truth in this. Because people who used to love everyone and everything end up getting hurt, which leads to them becoming fenced off, which leads to them becoming angry, and then finally heartless. So I'm not saying that you shouldn't love anyone, I'm just saying you should be careful when telling someone that they have a piece of your heart. -VI