Bam! Love this saying, it's not being mean it's just taking care of what's best for your family. In with the good out with the bad.. No room for the never ending drama. Love everyone some you just have to love from far away distance.
Family does not have to be blood. Too bad you can't pick them huh? There is so many lonely, elderly people with family's that are too busy to stay in touch. Keep that in mind ~ not only on the holidays.
I use to feel bad but not anymore. Took a long time to realize some people don't deserve my time or emotions. For my inlaws. Shame on your narcissism. Learn to behave like an adult. My husband can't even stand you. Terribly sad how you all treat him. Your only brother,your only son. Time to apologize and be an adult.