She’d remembered how they’d gone dancing one night, how adventurous it had seemed, how the music and starlight and danger had stirred her to feel close to him, almost giddy with pleasure, but how in a curious way it was not really him in her arms, it was the idea of happiness, the possibility, the temptation, a slow, tantalizing waltz with some handsome future.
Quality of life might be the same as the quality of the communication. Communication or negotiating with others is a key skill. Know who you are dancing with , where they want to go , but more importantly HOW they prefer to make the dance. Some people are not even looking at this they just want to do their thing. That's ok if you dont need other peoples co operation-