Has the Narcissist Really Moved On Like Nothing Happened? | Narcissism and Relationships Blog by Melanie Tonia Evans - See more at: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/has-the-narcissist-really-moved-on-and-having-a-great-life/#sthash.EWkQYeKk.dpuf
Everything the narcissistic mother does is deniable. There is always a facile excuse or an explanation. Cruelties are couched in loving terms. Aggressive or hostile acts are paraded as thoughtfulness. Selfish manipulations are presented as gifts. Criticism and slander is slyly disguised as concern.
Some adult children of narcissists may act and/or sound like their parent. This causes the fear that they may be narcissistic & will damage their own children. If you are worried about your children, you are not narcissistic. Narcissists only care about themselves! Relax! You realize what you are doing & can change, a narcissist cannot.