Yes, it hurts like hell but at least you are not in danger from a psycho stalker "girlfriend" that is stupid enough to believe "he" wasn't being physically "your" husband while he was seeing her.... crazy witch. I highly recommend watching Cameron Diaz in "The Other Woman" and laughing your ass off"...except those "other women" were "normal" and as soon as they found out the guy was married, they were on the wife's side.How any "normal decent" woman would behave in that situation though.
I found out about you cheating. I see why you left now. It's hard to take responsibility and admit your faults. Unlike you though, I am here for you if you want to make up. I will forgive you because I can. It was wrong of you to play the victim like this. I think you are feeling guilty and can't face it. That would explain a lot of your actions.