The Privilege Jar - This is an excellent idea for rewarding extremely good behavior and reinforcing that character traits you want to develop. _ I can also imagine a Consequences Jar. Level of consequences on color coded car. When they need discipline have the child pull a consequences card in the color code that is appropriate for the action
Consequence Jar, ideas for consequences. Should also do a rewards jar. Not sure if I completely like the idea of a "consequence" jar but I understand the logic behind it and some of the consequences are pretty funny. May try..!
Ideas: pick up one another's toys, sit quietly next to each other for 5 min, say something nice to one another, set the table together, draw a picture for the other person, have a drink and do "cheers"