Lift others up, don’t put them down. Be a fountain, not a drain. Be part of the ‘Construction Team’ rather than the ‘Wrecking Crew’—especially at home with those most dear to you! Practice smiling regularly, and as Stephen R. Covey has taught, “Be a light, not a judge. Be a model, not a critic.” Do all you can (often and in as many ways as possible) to encourage those around you and brighten their day. As you do, you’ll find that you’ve done as much or even more for yourself in the process!