Parenting can be particularly tricky though when you are dealing with a toxic ex, or when your own parents have not given you a healthy example to follow. That is why we have gathered some resources here about parenting after abuse
Don't engage.. That was this morning, with insults about her eating habits, telling her she "ate a cow" and then arguing over his request to have her an extra night and suggesting she (a 4 year old) should decide! I REFUSED TO ARGUE IN FRONT OF OUR CHILD. BUT THE ABUSIVE NATURE OF HIS BEHAVIOUR IS VILE.