"Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy. That is not our business, and in fact, it is nobody's business. What we are asked to do is to love, and this love itself will render both ourselves and our neighbors worthy if anything can." - Thomas Merton -- I love this quote!
i think they know we love them no matter how they look. as for me, i also prefer tummies over abs, abs don't define men. don't misunderstand i, of course they look good with abs, but they don't have to ><