Scorpio can be either very quiet while they observe the scene or very talkative, jumping from one topic to another. They are friendly people but have their guards up a lot of the time, so they may come off as uninterested. Giving them time to open up exposes a fun sweet side.
It's hard to look at relapse in any kind of positive light, but a positive is that it brings us to our knees and makes us rely completely on Him. I try to look at it as a wakeup call that I am not in control.