Do not let your relationship turn into one person only being dominant/submissive-share each role, it will turn into an unhealthy relationship otherwise. Use "I see it differently" in difficult relationships.
It isn't about finding the perfect person, it isn't about living some fairy tale; it's about finding something you're willing to work for, with somebody who's willing to work with you. That simple. Find someone who has a heart for you & never stop fighting for them.