We can love & still call each other out on our stuff...accountability

"Unconditional love doesn't mean you have to unconditionally accept bad behaviors." Don't let loved ones treat you badly and that means parents, siblings, offspring, extended family and long term friends.

Helping is doing something for someone that he is not capable of doing himself. Enabling is doing for someone things that he could and should be doing himself. #enabling #quotes

Helping is doing something for someone that he is not capable of doing himself. Enabling is doing for someone things that he could and should be doing himself.

Enable your own self love ... because if the person you are with has an addiction personality .. you may well be the ONLY one looking out for you! ... put in the investment ...

Law Of Attraction Affirmations

Enable your own self love . because if the person you are with has an addiction personality . you may well be the ONLY one looking out for you! put in the investment .

ENABLING is helping, assisting, supporting,  or bailing someone out, in order they may avoid the natural  (and perhaps unpleasant)  consequences of their actions.  Poster: http://www.zazzle.com/enabling_definition_why_do_it_why_stop_poster-228475255457392789

I only sought recovery when my family stopped enabling me. I was told I had no home to come back to while I was in detox. It lead to the decision to move 1000 miles away from home for rehab. Best decision of my life.

True story.  Always stand up for yourself.  I am ok he found someone else. I see her as weak. There is no way he changed nor ever will.

25 Common Misconceptions of a Narcissist Yep, my spouse enables their bad behavior. When I point it out he becomes enraged, so I am forced to look on and receive. Maltreatment by biting my tongue over and over again.

Addiction Quote Print by HotCreativeMess

So tired of those that enable. I will no longer feel bad for cutting those out of my life with addictions. Addiction Quote Print by HotCreativeMess

Are your boundaries clear? Recovery in Balance: 365 Days of Co-Dependency

A very important concept to master for well being and the empowerment of others .

One thing I believe strongly in this life is that you just don't reward bad behavior. #DrPhil

“One thing I believe strongly in this life is that you just don’t reward bad behavior.

Quote on addictions: Once the enabling stops, the recovery is given the opportunity to start. www.HealthyPlace.com

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Don't do for others what they should do themselves.  You can't care about them more then they care about themselves.

Understanding the Nature of the Enabler

Enabling teaches them nothing. Endurance & having them take responsibility for their actions teaches.

If an addict is happy at you, you are probably enabling them.....

If an addict is happy with you, you are probably enabling them. If an addict is mad at you, you're probably trying to save their life.

What you allow is what you'll get.

I stopped enabling and I don't give my permission to the storm of her Narcissism to come into my life anymore. I don't accept invitations for arguments or listen to tall tales, lies, or self pity anymore.

Are you loving someone to death? Addiction Campuses: Enabling Addiction Infographic. Call 888-512-3326

This time of year, it's especially easy to mistake enabling addiction for helping your loved one.

Surviving an emotionally abusive and manipulative mother with narcissistic personality disorder and enabling father and siblings.

My father called me disrespectful when I tried to tell him how I really felt about everything. For someone with anxiety, talking about my feelings to the person who has hurt is really hard.

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