Never too busy to notice who is loyal to who and that says everything. Loyal to the good in people who are evil is like saying you believe in cartoon worlds. If a person is good then they have chosen to leave evil out. If a person is sometimes evil they have not chosen they have hidden demons and used good as a stepping stone into areas they have no business. A fox in the hen house cause there are "good parts" as a fool would say. He will eat the chickens sooner or later.
Yep and that is exactly what you did! You taught me what never to settle for, never to allow my daughters to settle for or be treated like and you taught me how to make sure never to let my son treat another woman the way you have treated women!