And they DO find out on their own. Just this last weekend, my adult son told me "Mom, I never remember you bad-mouthing my dad and you could have". It was a HUGE comfort to me to hear that. I always wanted to make sure my boys formed THEIR OWN opinions.
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I don't need for things to be 'good' all the time. I need to be strong for what ever happens all the time. The bird doesn't have faith in the branch - she has faith in her wings; should the branch fail her.
Say yes. You’ll figure it out afterward. – Tina Fey
aka...living a lie. Only the true narcissist hates the truth. No normal, rational person can ignore the truth. Listen to the way people frame conversations and you'll figure it out. It may take awhile to put the pieces together, but never doubt your gut. There are some guys in this world who will invent bullcrap about their exes in order to look more appealing. (And women will do this too, guys! Their act is usually the damsel in distress, battered woman act.) Avoid! Period.
Delete the word "can't" from your vocabulary. Nothing stands between you and your goals except yourself. Get out of your own way. YOU can. You have everything you need already inside you. Just jump. Just decide. Figure it out as you go and trust yourself. I believe in you, but that's not enough. You must believe in yourself #ican #trustyourself #believeinyou #goals #justdoit