I no longer allow those experiences to keep me down. I no longer remember every little detail. Why keep the negative energy? I have moved on. Find peace, stop dwelling on the past, make a move to find your closure. My past doesn't hurt me anymore.
Forgiveness is so hard, especially when the person really isn't sorry. But your soul deserves peace and when you finally let go of the pain they caused you, it is amazing how the energy shifts and they no longer have any power over you.
There will always be things in life that are beyond our control. If we tie our happiness to specific circumstances and rigid outcomes then whatever we can't control becomes a source of stress and other unpleasant emotions.