Pinterest • The world’s catalogue of ideas

Red Flag #27. Gaslighting. Blatantly denies their own manipulative behavior and ignores evidence when confronted with it. They will become angry if you attempt to disprove their delusions with facts.

1.4k
307
3

YOUR ABUSIVE PARTNER DOESN’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH HIS ANGER; HE HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOUR ANGER. One of the basic human rights he takes away from you is the right to be angry with him. No matter how badly he treats you, he believes that your voice shouldn’t rise and your blood shouldn’t boil. The privilege of rage is reserved for him alone. When your anger does jump out of you—as will happen to any abused woman from time to time—he is likely to try to jam it back down your...

1.9k
605

gas lighting #gaslighting you're being dramatic. You're crazy. There's no love in your voice. emotional manipulation. Emotional abuse. Narcissistic abuse. Lauren Matthias.

397
110
1

They push your buttons to get you into an argument to make you look crazy. The shrinks call this 'levelling'. He wants you down at his level.

904
242