"Don't let fear keep you quiet. You have a voice, so use it. Speak up. Raise your hands. Shout your answers. Make yourself heard. Whatever it takes, just find your voice, and when you do, fill the damn silence." - Meredith Grey, Grey's Anatomy
The fact that as a human we expect things. The good and the bad. But we find that we are taken aback when either comes. Remember that things are better in the end. If it's not okay then it's simply put not the end.