Grief, I’ve learned, is really love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot give. The more you loved someone, the more you grieve. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes and in that part of your chest that gets empty and hollow feeling. The happiness of love turns to sadness when unspent. Grief is just love with no place to go. - Jamie from http://allmylooseends.com/2014/03/lights-wink/
THIS is what a grieving person truly needs to hear from you... To be honest with you, I don't have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that aching to see you smile again.
One At Rest. A collection of non-religious funeral poems that help soothe our grieving hearts. Curated by Pencil Dust Designs, creators of personalised, uplifting, and memorable order of service booklets.
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