Not sure how to pin this. Originally, this spoke to me on a level of marriage counseling type advice. But really the link is a blog type article about a company. The article is cute, but still an advertisement.
How to get over him...once an for all. You don't, he/it is now a part of who you are. You won't think about him all the time, but something will trigger a memory and your right back there. . . get used to it and move on.
Depression. I did forget most of what happened during my life, but then those memories came back, scared the hell out of me, tore me apart, and I fell apart. Yes, I wish I could forget because it all hurts so much.