I can give myself those things. I make my own money, and do my own thing, and he respects that. He knows without a doubt, I would be ok without him. What he gives me that no one else can is himself, raw and unfiltered. That's all I ever want or expect from those in my life. I am a woman, not a little girl playing house. I'm earned, not bought, I do my own upkeep, but I am not kept.
My soon to be ex husband. Even the guys at work say only a coward runs in and runs out of the office to avoid the wife he's left behind. He will get tired of the new one telling him what to do one day... Or maybe not. Maybe that is what the loser needs for the rest of his life... A woman OK with a man that ran from his responsibilities.
We all feel this way one day or another., from whatever life or situations mean to us.. We are humans with feelings and emotions at the end of day.. I am going to keep this handy so when I feel anxious, I could remember to breathe and that things will be ok.