If your man fucks others while he is in a "relationship" with you, you call those other girls "pieces of ass." I'm sorry darling, but if he's cheating on you then what would that make you? A stupid piece of ass? All the shoes in the world aren't worth being someone's piece of ass... and that's what you are, too.
To forgive is Divine. To forgive the same thing over and over again is weakness. When Shawn (my former husband) cheated on me for the second time with a second woman, it would have been so much easier to forgive him, stay married and move on. It took much more courage, much more bravery to leave him, leave my "perfect" life, to move on, and to have more respect for myself. Have I forgiven him? Yes. Of course I have. Does that mean I had to stay married to him? No.