I never asked to compete. I was perfectly happy just doing my life, by myself. You turned us into a competition. I hope you read this and know it's for you. I'm done. Compete with someone else. I'm not doing it anymore.
I get so many messages from women who are single that don't know how just embrace their singleness. The truth is, if you can't be happy alone you won't be happy when you're not single. One of the most empowering things I did, was go get coffee alone, shop alone, and go on trips alone. You grow from these experiences and you will truly understand who you are as an individual. You'll never have to struggle with getting lost in a relationship if you embrace your own company.
I wish it were that easy. Just stop? Why thank you. That never occurred to me before, to just be happy and stop. NO, Stop being a condescending asshole. I have depression, I am not depressed. There is a difference.