Boundaries are hard to set and maintain if we doubt ourselves and our assessment of the situation. We often wonder if we are overreacting or being too sensitive. We need to set healthy boundaries if someone's behaviors show their lack of respect for us and our feelings #boundaries
When a grandmother sets herself up for agony due to her own delusions, lack of realistic expectations, lack of respect, lack of responsibility for inner space. She has an emotionally rough time with the seemingly "never ending excuses". Link to article: http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/2008-04-19/news/tellme0419_1_babies-mothers-grandma
Most do the most horrendous of things, make up lies, are disloyal, speak of private things they promised not to because they can't hold to their own words or actually keep their own oaths, and lack true integrity and cannot even apologize properly let alone mean it.