This is totally BM. She can manipulate anyone and any situation! And we somehow are always the "bad guys".

This is totally BM. She can manipulate anyone and any situation! And we somehow are always the "bad guys".

Are you being controlled or manipulated?

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when you get fed up & you refuse to put up with their shit, they blame you for something....anything. They just can't get that you doing what you feel is best for you...which is not them.

when you get fed up & you refuse to put up with their shit, they blame you for something....anything. They just can't get that you doing what you feel is best for you...which is not them.

Sometimes it seems that the louder someone claims sainthood, the bigger the horns they are hiding. - Steve Maraboli

Sometimes it seems that the louder someone claims sainthood, the bigger the horns they are hiding. - Steve Maraboli

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK. Manipulation when someone is called out on bad behavior is a problem with them, not a fault of yours.

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK. Manipulation when someone is called out on bad behavior is a problem with them, not a fault of yours.

It's called creating or enlisting "flying monkeys". It's also the key to a Narcissist's control over their victim who winds up isolated and without anyone to listen, believe or take their side. Often enough, the victim winds up doubting their own sanity while the Narcissist's flying monkeys (usually family and close friends) go about blindly defending the Narcissist in question and refusing to listen to the victim or entertain any criticism of their creator despite it's validity. ~ A.L.N.

It's called creating or enlisting "flying monkeys". It's also the key to a Narcissist's control over their victim who winds up isolated and without anyone to listen, believe or take their side. Often enough, the victim winds up doubting their own sanity while the Narcissist's flying monkeys (usually family and close friends) go about blindly defending the Narcissist in question and refusing to listen to the victim or entertain any criticism of their creator despite it's validity. ~ A.L.N.

How to spot an emotional manipulator. They twist your words, they say something but mean another, they guilt trip you, they're passive aggressive, it's always about them.

How to spot an emotional manipulator. They twist your words, they say something but mean another, they guilt trip you, they're passive aggressive, it's always about them.

Exactly! Some people create a ridiculois senario in their minds that are nothing more than false accusations and feeding off of a drama they themselves are creating that's far from the truth.

Exactly! Some people create a ridiculois senario in their minds that are nothing more than false accusations and feeding off of a drama they themselves are creating that's far from the truth.

people will show you, make your own decision, instead of judging someone based on the opinions of others.

people will show you, make your own decision, instead of judging someone based on the opinions of others.

"When a toxic person can no longer control you..." Sometimes other people will never see the truth about that toxic person, because narcissists are masters at manipulation.

"When a toxic person can no longer control you..." Sometimes other people will never see the truth about that toxic person, because narcissists are masters at manipulation.

people show their true colors...

People show their true colors, unintentionally. Pay attention.

So true. Except you can't change anyone period. But you can't even change YOURSELF if you don't acknowledge your own issues.

So true. Except you can't change anyone period. But you can't even change YOURSELF if you don't acknowledge your own issues.

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