In doing this one should understand that when mistakes do happen, the past can not be claimed for something that occured two days ago. That is an issue in the present. It is okay to mess up. I mess up. I can forgive mess ups. For me, though, it is not okay to mess up, refuse to take responsibility for said mess up and then claim a lack of support in trying to make changes. That feels more like manipulation and playing the victim to a self created situation.