Playing mind games and playing with someone heart is SO wrong. You want him/her tell them and do something about it... "punishing them" for past mistakes is so wrong. Case of I don't want him but don't want anyone else to have him. Don't be selfish.
Say No to man-haters!! Only a weak, insecure, ignorant, immature, judgemental woman would say "real man". It's about PEOPLE, NOT GENDER!!! And everyone is different & some women are just too dumb for certain men. So don't take it out on the male gender because you can't get the man you want.