"I hate the word Homophobia. It's not a Phobia. You're not scared. You're an Asshole." - Morgan Freeman (ok apparently this isn't an actual quote from Morgan Freeman... still a good quote though, whoever the REAL original source is!
pretty much, if you're a c***, then I'm a c***..simple. And I don't have this problem with any one else in my life...apparently I'm not the only one finally experiencing it either, the other, the family, close friends...it's only and always a matter of time