quotes about truth and lies in relationships - Google Search
A narcissist has a false self they loathe. They don't want to suffer alone in their self hatred. If you are kind and sensitive and self aware, they might try to make you their scapegoat. Then get others to fiercely hate you so that you feel it even more...
Narcissists try their best to destroy your self esteem. Do not allow them to bring you down, If they make you feel 'small' than tell them straight up: 'I think your worthless and small'. Make them have a taste of their own medicine.
When you start to recovering from narcissist abuse, you will change. You might freak everyone out. People who are used to the "old you" may be caught off guard. It allows you to set up boundaries and let others hold their own pain and anxiety instead of you taking it on for them. You become more assertive and confident. Allow this to happen. The dust will settle and everyone will adjust.
#narcissists play dumb ... like posting, "go ahead, judge me, just remember to be perfect for the rest of your life (like living in one man's house, having a one-night stand with another, moving forward to date a third, all to fall back on option two is ever considered "perfect")