Should you ever find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, smallness or insecurities, remember: things could be worse... You could be them. #haters gonna #hate! But as HH @dalailama says, "with #compassion, you must do what you can to stop them - for they are harming themselves, as well as those who suffer from their actions."
They will accuse you of doing all the things that in fact, they have done to you. Blame is huge for them. They think that since they always blame others for their behavior, that you in turn blame them for every nasty thing they've done to you (rightly so which is the kicker lol). It's just so twisted ya know. Best to just save your energy.