I'm pinning this in here. Mainly because I am doing my best to be less toxic. Due to my abandonment in my early life, and at times in my early 20's, I am prone to be needy with it being mostly emotional needs. I don't have a lot of physical contact with anyone (and when I say "physical" I really do mean touching, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc.) and I think that it's very important to have on a daily basis.
I'm really tired of messed up, needy, psychologically unwell women. Ladies you are worth it. Be strong. Know who you are. Love yourself. Do your inner work. When you don't do your own soul work you will inevitably find yourself damaging everyone around you. And yourself. You are ENOUGH.