I couldn't agree more with this poster. Particularly if you are recovering from mental difficulties. You must be with positive people and rise to their level. Negative people have a habit of dragging you down to their own level. Because they don't want to be left behind and not because they are giving you good advice. I only have a few friends myself, and they are Triple A rated. cheers Paul Ianni
DEAR GOD YES! It's funny because the person I hear complain the most usually has a better life than the noncomplainers. Just because you don't hear me talk about it doesn't mean I didn't have an eating disorder, self harmed myself, was molested when I was younger then raped at 19. You don't know that my father abused me or that I'm currently STUCK in an emotionally abusive relationship. Stop complaining about having to run around doing things YOU signed up for.
Avoid people who mess with your head. Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you. Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you. Avoid people who can't and won't apologize sincerely. Avoid Avoid.