People ask questions which make them feel very knowledgeable. They want to ask questions not to get the answer, but just to show their knowledge. I never answer those questions. I simply throw them away. I only answer questions that open up your wounds because once your wounds are open, there is the possibility of healing ~ Osho
This could be controversial~be confident in yourself and not afraid of being alone and having your own life and not so dependent on another. Sharing a life w/ a companion can bring you much joy, but also much heartache.