“And once the storm is over you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, in fact, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” -Haruki Murakami
How you feel about being alone. | "I like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore, in order to win me over, your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You're not competing with another person, you are competing with my comfort zones."—Horacio Jones
Contrary to popular belief.. You do have control over your life!!! Make it amazing!!! I know I did! ✨ I am so happy I found it works! It's given me freedom in all aspects of my life. Do I want to sleep in and work from my bed? Done. Do I want to go out with my friends on the weekend? Done. Do I want to go to Florida for a weekend? Done. It's such a good feeling having no set schedule!! It's given me the ability to make choices, and I'm always choosing fun adventures over the same old…
Unless you've crawled inside someone's skin and felt the words that claw away at their throat and suffocate them during the night, you have no right to tell anyone to get over it or that they shouldn't be upset.
Effort, time and interest in my direction means you care. If you aren't interested enough to ask- I'm not going to tell you anything. You don't get to just know or gawk for knowing sake. Those days are over.