In lunch the grandfather symbolizes what keeps the family together. This is because when he died the grandmother, in grief moved with another relative farther from the rest of the family so when she would cook now, nobody came. This is why the grandfather symbolized what held the family together and made their family interact more.
Depending on the day I can feel either way. I had so much fun with you. I often wonder how you feel about our past experiences (cali-foodie runs- raves- downtown) these are the memories I will not forget and then there are times I'd give anything to forget them.