Tools Everyone Should Own + Tool Tutorials by Pretty Handy Girl -- I've followed Pretty Handy Girl for many years. She gives clear and safety-conscious advice for DIY, for anyone, but esp. for women if they are the least bit hesitant to use certain tools.
Owner-Built House, Cabin and Barn Kits from Shelter-Kit®. "How long will it take to assemble? Our kits can be assembled by two people in about 3 to 15 days, depending on the kit. No cranes, lifts or power tools are typically required."