I like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore in order to win me over your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You're not competing with another person, you're competing with my comfort zones.
Everyone is scared to be alone, and I'm like ya gotta be ok with yourself, you gotta be able to count on yourself. Be great on tour own, and if someone comes along and they make you better, then by all means that is wonderful.