And that perception is usually self serving/ selfish. Men. If you don't want your women sharing personal relationship issues with other people, be available and willing to talk to her. I have emotionally closed shop now so it's too late. Don't let your woman get to that point.
Mostly this: I'm not perfect. I make mistakes. I have jealousy issues. And trust issues. I can be moody sometimes. But I promise you that if I say I love you, I mean it. I'm faithful, I'm loyal, and I will do everything I can to keep you. Don't confuse my caring for being controlling. Don't make me put in all the effort. Don't ignore me. Love me back like you mean it, or don't stay.