That's how it is, if you are there for people, they imagine you will always be waiting for them, when you have had enough of the one sided friendship and you stop making yourself available, all of a sudden they notice, by then you don't give a crap, you just wish you hadn't wasted time with a self centered ingrate.
"Family" isn't defined only by last names or blood. It's defined by commitment and by love. It means showing up when they need it most. It means having each other's backs. It means choosing to love each other even on those days when you struggle to like each other. It means never giving up on each other! ~ Dave Willis #quote