What ever happened to humility? Once valued in our culture, humility just isn’t practiced at all. Instead, we have a self-centered, chest-thumping, braggadocios, pat yourself on the back generation with an exaggerated self-importance.
Sometimes when you want more and you're looking at everyone above you it's easy to become ungrateful. Sometimes I just don't want to be grateful. I want to do more, have more and live more. But I'm always convicted in those moments. What if you had nowhere to stay? What if you were hungry? What if you had children you couldn't feed? When we are too self-centered it's easy to feel like we're lacking. When we are at our worst, it's best to find other people to help, because you will often…
No body fights for anybody else anymore though, because we live in a very self centered time. People only really care for themselves...doesn't matter if they claim they are in love and happy...cuz ultimately they know nothing about/incapable of truly loving anyone else.
That's how it is, if you are there for people, they imagine you will always be waiting for them, when you have had enough of the one sided friendship and you stop making yourself available, all of a sudden they notice, by then you don't give a crap, you just wish you hadn't wasted time with a self centered ingrate.