....and if you're really going to go all in-concerning love-make sure you choose someone who isn't selfish. I'm not saying he has to love you more than he loves himself. But he needs to love you at least equal to it. Otherwise...it will always be about him. His needs will always take precedence over your life. And believe me...you can't be 'happily ever after' with someone who makes you feel like you get his scraps.
Oh well... Its a sad truth many relationships, marriages end, how a man handles it in front of his child/ren will determine the relationship he will have with them. So many throw it away on selfishness and anger only to then blame others for the mistakes that cause them their children. Divorce is between parents not parent and child. Pray for children from broken homes everywhere.
Life with a narcissist. It's always about THEM. Always. I want to add that as a physician who has been the victim of Gaslighting, NO ONE IS IMMUNE http://identifiedpatient.com . I leave this link to help one understand and validate themselves.