Rant time: This is what bothers me about society. I believe that it's possible to find love without looking for people based on appearance, but society makes it sooooo hard for people to do so that all the best people have the hardest time getting anyone to love them (romantically) while all the attractive people get everyone to go for them, even the "good" people who supposedly go for people with substance. It just makes no sense. Let's only like nice people and be nice, pretty or not.
12 Things People Don't Understand About Eating Disorders
Normal physical changes of the body during teen years can cause distress to young people, especially females, as their hips, waists and thighs change shape. The cultural ideal of beauty and attractiveness is generally centered on being slim (for females) and muscly (for males) and many young people feel dissatisfied with themselves during this time due to such transformations.
Be yourself, NOT destroy yourself or bother(harm)others BUT mature without hurting others even if your maturing "offends" others which it can't YET remember: Truth that hurts is better then the lie that slays.