So true. It's hard to find a place in society when as soon as you find a place you're comfortable in society pulls it out from under you. So don't try to shape yourself into society's idea or normal or pretty. Be yourself, whoever you are, you're beautiful!
Be yourself, NOT destroy yourself or bother(harm)others BUT mature without hurting others even if your maturing "offends" others which it can't YET remember: Truth that hurts is better then the lie that slays.
Normal physical changes of the body during teen years can cause distress to young people, especially females, as their hips, waists and thighs change shape. The cultural ideal of beauty and attractiveness is generally centered on being slim (for females) and muscly (for males) and many young people feel dissatisfied with themselves during this time due to such transformations.