I love people who are loving, but from a distance, so other family members won't involve them in a dispute. Because some members act like people have to choose a side or religion over a member of the family.
One of the hardest decisions you can make is to remove yourself from a toxic relationship with your parents. At some point you have to acknowledge the verbal and mental abuse they put you through even if they refuse to take accountability and move on.
Time to make a break & let go of toxic people in your life?