mindfulmft | The process of letting go is so especially painful when a part of our heart is still with that person. We may not remain in love with them forever but maybe we will always have love for parts of them. Letting go of something that is no longer is a must. Otherwise we just keep ourselves stuck in the same place. It's not healthy to fantasize about a future with this person to dream up a different ending day in and day out. Of course none of us know the ending but we can't just…
Have the courage to walk away from those who cannot love you as you are And when you say you forgive someone You cannot truly forgive if you are leaning on that pain as the crutch to hold up your forgiveness
Much longer away, and it will. I am doing my best. Are we being only results oriented? I don't do sadism when it comes to my welfare anymore than is accidentally occurring. Enough. Let's move on already. I plan to do 'business' decisions this afternoon. Don't keep me hanging, I refuse to live like Job.
“Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren't inherently bad people, but they aren't the right people for us.