Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important. You learn what you can and should give to others and you also learn when to walk away.
I know my own truth. I trust my own voice. I believe my own heart. I see with my own eyes. I speak my own mind. Trust yourself. It's a hard lesson but it makes life so much easier and happier. From the FREE Confidence Course: http://www.prolificliving.com/21series